Monday, 31 July 2023

Recollecting beautiful old memories

When I was young, my village was a world of its own, a cocoon of simplicity and joy that shielded me from the complexities of the outside world. I was innocent and naive, unaware of the vastness that lay beyond my familiar surroundings. The outside world seemed like a distant dream, and many aspects of it remained alien to me.

In that little world, I found meaning and happiness in every small thing. The forest and deep jungle were my playgrounds, and the excitement of discovering their hidden mysteries was the most thrilling adventure I'd ever had. I cherished being within reach of my parents, listening to their wise advice, and experiencing the warmth of their affection. My days were filled with the laughter of my fellow villagers, and I regarded the pleasure of helping my neighbors whenever possible.

Modern electronic distractions were absent from my life, leaving me with the pure pleasures of herding cows and playing archery. Even the thought of joining school brought excitement and wonder. However, once there, I felt a mix of fear and curiosity toward my teachers and struggled to comprehend the enigma of mathematics.

In school, reading books and singing rhymes were our afternoon delights. We learned about the weather and days, absorbing knowledge with eager minds. Playing friendly games, competitions, and literary activities were the highlight of my days. We played walnut games and marbles, and sometimes fought and struggled for the fruits of a Dogwood tree which happened to be the Centre of attention in my Pry School. I remember running to school barefoot in both rain and sun and returning home late at night, the journey etched in my memory as a cherished adventure.

Life was about learning essential skills, broadening my mind to the outside world, and nurturing nature's gifts. I was introduced to gardening and planting flowers around my school, enhancing the beauty of the surroundings. Joining nature clubs taught me about environmental awareness, and annual variety shows allowed me to showcase my talents in dancing, singing, and drama.

As the seasons changed, I guarded maize fields from wild animals and birds, collected firewood from the jungle, lumbered from the forest, and gathered bamboo from the mountaintops. Dawn was a time of daring adventure as I risked facing wild beasts to collect walnuts or firewood from the forest. Orchids, mushrooms, and other plants from the forest and riverside were treasured discoveries.

Local festivals were moments of pure joy, where we played, sang, and danced with abandon. I fondly remember attending others' religious festivals, where we performed songs and dances with passion and unity.

Shopping meant traveling days to the nearest road points, accompanied by horses and bulls. Life was simple yet fulfilling. I can’t bury the memories of several yak herders who would travel day and night throughout the year through my village and such a beautiful sight it was.

These memories are so rich and beautiful, so difficult to capture in mere words. I wonder if the generations to come will ever experience the same unbridled joy and simplicity that I once did. With the advancements of this age, will they ever get to breathe the cleanest air, drink the freshest weather, and relish the most beautiful natural environment like I did?

The modern world may offer conveniences and wonders beyond imagination, but I can't help but feel a profound attachment to the experiences of my childhood. They shaped me, molded my character, and filled my heart with the purest form of happiness. I was fortunate to witness the beauty of nature in its untouched splendor, and no painting could ever do justice to those breathtaking views.

As the world changes, I hold to these memories, a treasure trove of feelings etched in my heart. My childhood was a gift, a time of innocence, wonder, and connection with nature, and I shall cherish those memories that shaped who I am today. 

Thursday, 27 July 2023

July 23, 2023 - Chador's Birthday Getaway

 


Today was a special day as it marked my wife’s birthday. Usually, I'm not one to make a big fuss about birthdays, but this year, things were different. Shacha and Karma Dema took the initiative to celebrate her birthday, and I couldn't resist joining in on the festivities.

On the eve of Chador's birthday, we managed to arrange a simple but meaningful celebration. We had a cake and some sweets to mark the occasion. Though it wasn't a grand affair, seeing Chador's happiness made it all worth it.

Chador had a dream to visit some beautiful places on her birthday, and we decided to make it come true. Our destination was the White Rock beach, a serene and picturesque spot. To get there, we rode a bus, and along the way, we were treated to breathtaking countryside scenery that offered a sense of peace and harmony amidst the bustling streets of Vancouver.

The weather wasn't entirely in our favor, but that didn't dampen our spirits. As soon as we reached the beach, we wasted no time and got into the sea, soaking up the refreshing waters for nearly an hour. It was a joyful and carefree moment, making memories we'd cherish.

After our beach time, we took a leisurely stroll around the nearby places, appreciating the beauty of the surroundings. It felt like a little escape from our daily routine, and we relished every moment of it. As the evening approached, we headed back to Richmond.

In the evening, our friend Joemar and Mercy surprised Chador with a special birthday dinner. We were joined by our friend Susan and her family, making it a lovely gathering. The dinner was delightful, and the company was even better. We shared laughter, stories, and made new memories together.

I'm so grateful to Joemar and Mercy for taking the initiative to plan this wonderful evening. Chador's birthday celebration turned out to be a day filled with joy, love, and happiness. It's moments like these that remind me of the importance of cherishing our loved ones and creating beautiful memories together.

As we wrap up this day, I say a heartfelt long life prayer for Chador. May she be blessed with happiness, good health, and prosperity in the coming year and for all the years to come. Happy birthday, my dear Chador!

Wednesday, 12 July 2023

Embracing a New Chapter: My Brother's Arrival in Canada

The anticipation in the air was palpable as the clock ticked closer to the moment I had been eagerly awaiting. It was the 18th of June 2023, when my beloved brother arrived in Canada. The thought of his arrival filled me with a mix of joy and anxiety, as I knew that I held a responsibility to guide him through the labyrinthine paths of this foreign land.

As I stood at the airport, my mind wandered back to the memories we had shared, the moments that slipped through our fingers, and the time that had betrayed us by keeping us apart. The distance that separated us for so long had finally come to an end with beautiful moments about to unfold. I hoped that bringing him here would be the catalyst for a better life.

My brother, with his innocent eyes and naive spirit, had stepped foot on a new continent, unaware of the challenges that lay ahead. It was up to me to be his guiding light, his anchor in the uncharted waters of Canada. I longed for him to find purpose, happiness, and success in this foreign land, and I was determined to do everything in my power to make it so.

Days turned into weeks, and each passing day brought with it new lessons and experiences. I became my brother's confidant, his teacher, and his greatest cheerleader. Together, we navigated the intricate webs of paperwork, job applications, and cultural adaptation. Though exploring the job market posed its challenges, we never faltered in our resolve.

I watched with pride as my brother, like a sprouting seed reaching for the sun, grew with each passing day. His innocence transformed into curiosity, his hesitation morphed into determination, and his unfamiliarity with Canadian customs gradually dissolved. I marveled at his resilience and admired his ability to adapt to the ever-changing landscape of our new home.

While I wished for nothing but the best for him, I knew that life would not always be a smooth journey. There would be bumps along the way, disappointments that threatened to dim his spirit, and moments of doubt that could cast shadows over his dreams. However, I firmly believed that with each challenge, he would only emerge stronger, armed with the wisdom gained from experience.

As the seasons changed, so did my brother's prospects. Job interviews turned into opportunities, and with every rejection, he grew more determined to find his place in this foreign land. The road was arduous, but his resilience remained unyielding. I held his hand and reminded him that success often sprouts from the seeds of perseverance.

In my heart, I harbored nothing but good wishes for him. I wished for him to find the meaning of life here—to discover his passions, forge friendships, and build a future that would bring him contentment and joy. I hoped that this land would embrace him, just as it had embraced me, and provide him with opportunities to blossom into the best version of himself.

Today, as I sit beside my brother, reflecting on the journey we've embarked upon together, I am overwhelmed with gratitude. The worry that once weighed heavily upon my heart has dissipated a bit but still a long way to go, replaced by a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction. Having him right next to me, no longer separated by time and distance, is a blessing.

As we gaze at the horizon, our eyes brimming with hope, we know that the road ahead may still be challenging. But together, we are armed with resilience, determination, and an unbreakable bond. With each passing day, my brother grows closer to finding his place, his purpose, and his own unique meaning of life here in Canada. And I, as his steadfast companion, will continue to be there every step of the way, cheering him on as he embraces this new chapter of his life.